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Parenting Time for Unmarried Fathers: What You Need to Know

Posted by Mariserg Anonales-Lopez | Aug 23, 2024 | 0 Comments

In today's world, family dynamics come in many forms, and the legal landscape surrounding parenting has evolved to reflect these changes. Unmarried fathers often face unique challenges when it comes to asserting their parental rights. At Katherine L. Maloney and Associates, we are dedicated to helping unmarried fathers navigate the complexities of family law to ensure their relationships with their children are protected and nurtured. In this blog post, we'll explore the rights of unmarried fathers regarding custody and visitation, what is now called parenting time and parental responsibilities in Illinois, and provide practical advice on how to assert and protect those rights.


Establishing Paternity:

Before an unmarried father can seek parenting time, paternity must be legally established by a court. If a father has signed a voluntary acknowledgment of paternity form (VAP), typically at the hospital when the child is born, then the Court will authenticate the VAP on the first court date. If paternity is not established voluntarily, it can be done through DNA testing. Establishing paternity is the first crucial step in securing legal rights to your child.

Legal Rights and Responsibilities:

Once paternity is established, unmarried fathers have the same legal rights and responsibilities as married fathers. This includes the right to seek parenting time, as well as the obligation to provide financial support for the child. It's important to understand that having your name on the birth certificate does not automatically grant you parenting time; these must be pursued through the legal system.

Seeking Parenting Time:

Unmarried fathers seeking Parenting Time must Petition the court. There is Parenting time (seeing the child) and parental responsibilities (decision-making authority regarding the child's upbringing). Courts consider the best interests of the child when making custody determinations, evaluating factors such as each parent's relationship with the child, their ability to provide a stable environment, and the child's needs. 

Modifying Custody and Visitation Orders:

Parenting arrangements are not set in stone. If there are substantial changes in circumstances (e.g., relocation, changes in the child's needs, or a parent's ability to care for the child), either parent can request a modification of the court order. It's essential to provide evidence of the substantial change in circumstances and demonstrate how the modification serves the best interests of the child.

Protecting Your Rights:

Navigating the legal system can be challenging, and the stakes are high when it comes to your relationship with your child. Here are some practical steps to protect your rights as an unmarried father:

  • Document Your Involvement: Keep records of your involvement in your child's life, including visits, communication, and financial support.
  • Stay Informed: Understand your rights and responsibilities under state law, and keep up-to-date with any changes in family law that may affect your case.
  • Seek Legal Counsel: An experienced family law attorney can provide invaluable guidance and representation, helping you navigate the legal process and advocate for your rights.
  • Prioritize Communication: Maintain open and respectful communication with your child's other parent, focusing on the best interests of your child.


Unmarried fathers have the right to parenting time to maintain a meaningful relationship with their children. By understanding the legal process and taking proactive steps to assert and protect your rights, you can ensure that your bond with your child is preserved and nurtured. We are committed to supporting unmarried fathers through every step of this journey. For legal assistance and guidance, contact us at Katherine L. Maloney & Associates at 815-577-9763.

Your child's well-being and your role as a father is our top priority. 

About the Author

Mariserg Anonales-Lopez

Mariserg Anonales-Lopez joined Rathbun, Cservenyak, & Kozol, LLC as an associate attorney in 2023. Her current practice areas include family law, probate, guardianship, and general litigation. Ms. Anonales-Lopez, who was born in California, grew up in Aurora, Illinois as a first-generation Mexican American. ...

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